Last Updated Oct. 20, 2025

Basic info
- Name: Owen Murphy
- Age: 24
- Personality: I usually get INTJ on Myers-Briggs, and I find descriptions like this one are fairly accurate to my impression of myself. I’m not socially anxious, but I can sometimes come across as a bit stoic and quiet since I don’t say much when I feel like I don’t have anything useful/interesting to contribute. Of course, if I’m with people I really click with, then I can quickly pick up speed with wordplay, puns, and general banter. Alternatively, if I get onto a topic I’m especially interested in, then I can also just go full lecture/professor mode and keep talking indefinitely (or as long as people are interested).
- Profession: Software Developer
- Location: Cambridge/Boston, MA
- Orientation: Hetero
- Politics: Center-left

Picture of me from the time I gave a presentation on Moral Uncertainty to the Berkeley Philosophy Forum
I’m looking for a long-term relationship with a woman who
- Shares my values, especially with respect to valuing honesty, truth-seeking, and compassion for others
- Shares my interests, especially interest in self-improvement and in learning about ideas in philosophy, economics, math, computer science, and/or science in general from a somewhat skeptical/pragmatic perspective. Other shared interests in general nerd stuff would also be great
- Is someone I feel I can trust and be emotionally vulnerable with
- Is fun and funny enough to be my best friend
- Is in the approximate age range of 22-27
- Is nonreligious
- Would like to have kids in the future